As a teacher and instructor for considerable period in my life, I had never sulked from declaring the results. But it is a different ball game here today. How do you declare a WINNER, WHEN NO ONE IS A LOSER? I shudder, how do I do it? I have to keep the contest alive---I have to pass on the baton for the relay race to continue---I have to be truthful. An idea strikes my mind--why don't you leave the job to public---oh! yea, like most of these reality shows on the TV. So, I thought of involving the two judges in a controversy here-----but they proved more smarter than me. I approached them through a note.
Sh kamalji has put a 'DON'T DISTURB ME' placard to escape this dirty work. I suppose, he has a good excuse now. He can say that he was still experiencing the after effects of JAIPUR BLASTS. I do have my sympathies with him. Probably, the hosts of debate for the next fortnight might like to debate on the ways and means to tackle TERRORISM. The choice is of course of the next team. I am sure Sh Kamalji would be able to then give adequate inputs.
My dearest friend, Yash Chhabra, had the same dilemma as me. He simply said, " Rajee BHAIYYA, All are winners----wonderful write-ups. Let us decide by Toss." And caring his wonderful advice, I thought of flipping the coin. I gave the coin to my wife to flip it. And lo! she threw the coin out of the window saying," Silly chaps! you have no other work but keep banging your head on the LAPTOP the whole day. And what a stupid subject you chose to debate----what is there to debate---SUCCESS IS WHEN YOU SUCCEED-----HAVE YOU?"
So, it is back to square one. I make up my mind to choose a most unorthodox method to declare a winner. I decided to have a lottery. I put the following chits in a can and shook it:-
Poetbittersweet ---------“Success is nothing but a continuous process of tuning up our abilities and those abilities are out of our academic, theoretical, practical applications to the tasks by our observations, judgments, priorities, resources available, and reasoning.”
Premsaran----------“Success is a relative term. Every learned individual will have his own parameters of success based on his merit to lead a happy and contended life. This being the rationale behind success we must admit that every one is successful in his own way.
Ajit Nambiar-----“Networking is the branches of the tree called success, but roots are the merit of the person”
Vijayshekar---------------“The meritorious person may win the odd battle,but the networked person often wins the war. As a teacher I have seen hundreds of students pass each year with glorious marks. But whenever they come back for an alumni meeting,I am always pleasantly surprised to find the most successful persons were people with average grades in academics.”
Ehsaas--------------------“There is a saying “You need to be at right place at right time.” This sentence very well describes the opportunity for success created with networking. But my basic idea of the major root of success being the merit would still stay as if no merit how would you do justice to success?"
Dr Madhavi --------------“Finally success is not a destination, it is a continuous journey and depends on your outlook whether you achieve it on total merit or with added extra networking; it hardly matters as long as the path is taken up with clear conscience. At the end of the day you should be at peace with yourself.”
Meerajay--------------“Success is a non-stop walk in life. It keeps continuing and there is no end to it. Merit and Networking are like the two eyes that lead us to success in our journney of life.I would like to conclude that, for Life to be successful, both Merit and Networking are equally essential. Hope I have tried to justify my thoughts here.”
Ravi Sharma---------- HE DELETED HIS POST OR WHATEVER. THE LINK PROVIDED BY HIM GIVES A BLANK. I WENT TO HIS PAGE,TOO. BUT RAVI DHAWALANI HAS NO BLOGS POSTED.
Ether ---------------------“Merit or no merit, matter for success is irrefutably conglomeration of an apt dose of time, place, method, system, and the very abstract luck.”
Pavementfeud,----------“ Merit comes first. It is pure in nature. Seldom 'tasteless.'Networking is an add-on. It adulterates merit, in that the 'networker' at times devotes far too much time in building contacts. Often said to be 'tasteless' by some.”
Aditiray----------------------“Success has different meanings to different people. Merits of different kind are necessary for the kinds of success one aspires for. But merit and networking are not ‘either or’ choices, the ability to network is a merit too, as are looks, personality, intellect, and articulation, among others. The ‘only’ other factor which is not a merit in an individual, but is crucial for success of any kind, is luck.”
Lotuspetals----------------“ Merit can be gained by constant hard work and devotion to one's work..There was no use of the word 'net working’. Before some years ...it has become familiar in later years.The companiesuse a big amount of its budget for adveritsements every year..but some times a certain product lacking quality ( we can use merit in broader sense) do not gain suceess in selling.....! So thus in my opinion Merit is most important criteria for success.... A topper gets his rank as due to his output in examination......”
Poetbittersweet at his best. Real networking – like say if I am short of a couple of billion, I can just call Sam and say- “Listen, dude – I need some dough urgently – ok, gimme 8, no, round it off to 10, I’ll give it back after the IPO.” What’s a couple of billion to Uncle Sam, old chap – the richest man in the world. Just loose change.”
The result of the Lottery
I closed my eyes and put my hand in the CAN and following came out for the first time:
First Chit: Aditi Ray
In the second chit , it was:
Second Chit: Meerajay
As I go fishing into the can I find two chits coming out;
Third Chit: Dr Madhavi & Vijayshekar
Finally, I decided to go for cosolation chit, too:
Consolation: Ehsaas and Premsaran( just missed it--I should have taken out your chits first. Sorry.)
It is upto the winners now to host the next debate--I suggest on Terrorism---or whatever they like. They can change the rules as per their convenience. I request second placed and third placed winners to assist Aditi Ray in hosting the contest and be PRO-ACTIVE JUDGES. My best wishes to the host and the judges.
Dear rajee,
Now this was a clear demonstration of a stroke of 'luck'...( to note, not 'merit')...hahaha... thank you so much. I did receive your note but my net connection at home played up and I could not respond.
I would be very happy if any of the other participants cum winners ( as you said, every body was a winner) hosts the next debate.... I am a little tied up in coming days..personal reasons... would be travelling too...... will be not very regular in Sulekha...
I will not mind having a 'rain-check' on the prize of 'hosting a debate' ... but if not allowed in the rules of the game, I happily and without any malice or misgiving, abdicate in favour of the second winner.
Regards,
Aditi
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Dear Binagupta,
Thank you. i expect you to participate in the contest being hosted by Aditiray, Meerajay, Dr Madhvi and Vijayshekar. Anyway, I like your frank approach. good. god bless you. Regards. Rajee.
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rajee
sorry. was actually planning to write something- but mostly i write from my heart and not my head- hence could not come up with too many logical thoughts n pros n cons
as put forth so admirably by others. will try next time hopefully- still unsure
best
bina
congrats on a well run contest
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Dear Aruna,
Thank you so much. Nice to know so many things about see you. I don't think GLORY is far away from you. I have learnt some good things from you all and most important is how to be graceful and dignified in adversity. Thank you dear. And keep coming. My heartfelt and utmost regards. Rajee.
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Rajee
I am always like this......i like to participate and happy to see others win...I was a
sports person in my school days and worked as a teacher for many years though
Im having specialisation in Law....My smile always make other people surprised...I
am thankful to God for what I am....conitnue to do so....You and Yash and
kamlaji handled the contest so well.....Was very hapy to read lovely write-up of
my fellow bloggers.....Aruna.....
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Dear aruna,
Hard luck! you just missed out by a whisker to make the cut. I appreciate your gamesmanship and such lovely words.I am grateful to you for being understanding and always ever so dignified and graceful--this is your victory. Your participation was another. keep doing. Regards. Rajee.
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dear Binagupta,
thanks for making it to see the results but i fail to understand as to why did you skip this? I expected your entry. Ok, it is my loss but now please do it for the next contest. you must get out of poetic stance some times to don the coloursof a prose writer, too. Jokes apart I expected your entry. do it for the next. regards. Rajee.
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Dear Meera,
you are welcome and keep doing --you gonna go great lengths---if you continue this way. Regards. Rajee.
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congrats......to aditi and best luck for hosting.....next contest....
congrats to meerajay......congrats to dr.madhvi and vijayshakher....ehsaas and premsarn
congrats to you rajee for hosting the contest so well........Aruna
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congratulations to all the winners and all the participants
bina
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